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WTF is sexuality??

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 Literally, wtf.  I think that sexuality & gender is one of the oddest subjects and one of the weirdest things created by society.  DISCLAIMER: these are all my own opinions and ideas. I can only give advice and provide information from my own experience It is such a freaky thing because sexuality is fluid, but everyone expects you to know everything about your future love life by the time you're 13 and if you even think about straying off that path, well then you were just doing it for attention.  MMMMMmmhhhh nah, it's just really confusing. There are so many labels and this is super nice because some people need labels to validate how they feel. But for me, IT'S JUST SO OVERWHELMING! I don't want to have to choose.   Speaking of labels, if someone ever says "why are there so many names, what do they even mean?" 1) sit them down and have a conversation because that right there is A GROWTH OPPORTUNITY. Labels can bring so much comfort to someone who may...

How to Find Small Businesses Near You

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There are so many ways to find small businesses but it all seems so overwhelming at first.  How to support:  1. Don't ask for a discount ( because you're friends with them )     a. this is quite possibly one of the most disrespectful things you can say to a small business owner. Their work is worth what they are pricing it, whether you agree with it or not.  2. Do your research - ESPECIALLY FOR ETSY!!!      a. Sadly Etsy is prone to stolen art pages. If you find a page you like make sure you look around on their other social media pages just to double-check that everything matches up. I know I have been scammed by Etsy on multiple occasions. I tried to buy some T-shirts, and the account was totally fake and never sent out any orders, and it was all fake reviews. And also don't be afraid to fight for your money, after that order, I opened an appeal with Etsy and that page and got a refund. ADVOCATE FOR YOURSELF! 3. Don't be afraid to message someon...

MUSIC & PODCASTS

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Here I want to include some of my favorite playlists, I have gotten lots of questions about what types of music I listen to, so here ya go: 

How I Became My Own Best Friend

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Step one: become extremely depressed for an entire calendar year.  Step two: yay BFFS Haha just kidding there are a few more steps in there. From my own experience I have gone from being very friend orientated and a big people person in high school - to - a very introverted queer artist. It all started in January of 2019  (well not all of it, but that would be a much longer post)  when I got turned down from something that I had surrounded my entire life for 6 years. That is where I had all my friends, all my summer memories, and literally, everything about me was from that place. But I guess it wasn’t meant to be.  I hate when people say everything happens for a reason. Because god damn it did not feel like that happened for a reason for months. And I still don’t think there was an overarching reason that it happened, but I think through difficult events in our lives we can create a reason that it happened, for comfort. Basically, I was devastated, I honestly think ...

Sustainable Fashion Brands

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As someone who has watched one video about fast fashion, I have truly been scared for life.  It is very tempting to continue shopping on the easy route. Fast fashion is so easy to access and always there. But sometimes you have to take into account the immense environmental impact fast fashion has on the world around us. Fast fashion is cheap because most of the employees are not paid living wages.  "Fast Fashion is cheaply produced, poorly constructed clothing which copies the latest catwalk styles, pumped quickly through stores to maximize on current trends."   “Global clothing production has doubled in the past 15 years, with garments on average being worn much less and discarded quicker than ever before.” "Nine out of ten workers interviewed in Bangladesh cannot afford enough food for themselves and their families" “20,000 LITERS. The amount of water needed to produce one kilogram of cotton; equivalent to a single t-shirt and pair of jeans.”   FAST FASHION B...

A sustainable PERIOD!!!

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- some powerful period facts- disclaimer: I tried my best to use gender neutral pronouns though out this post. If I failed to correct some of my mistakes, I am so sorry, please message me so I can change them.  I realize that not all women have periods and not all people that have periods are women 1.      An individual goes through approximately 11,000 disposable pads/tampons in a lifetime. 2.      To produce one little bud of cotton the process requires six pints of water. 3.      Tampons, pads and panty lines along with their packaging generate more than 200,000 tons of waste per year.  4.      456 periods over 38 years = 6.25 years or 2,280 days of your life spent bleeding 5.      Assuming the prices of these items stay fixed (not realistic)     a.      tampons: if one tampons is used every 6 hours and 4 tampons are used every day = 20 tampons for a 5-day cycle, this totals ...

Website & Blog Pro (not pro at all) - Tips

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 Hi, so if you are like me you had no idea what HTML is, or how to sell products online, or how to write I am here to give you the -  website & blog 100% NOT PRO tips Below I will include a list of all the software I used for my two websites: Blogger (this) Google Sites (my shop) Ecwid (for selling products) BLOG:  So Blogger is pretty easy to understand and there are countless videos on youtube that show you how to do everything related to this. But since you love reading what I write (hopefully) I will give you my important tips. The website is super well laid out. On each of the tabs you can find your posts, there is a folder for drafts, published, and scheduled. There is also another tab that is full of extensions for different pages you can have on your site.  I couldn't include it on here because I can't put videos up here but on the layout tab and the theme tab. You can truly customize your blog to whatever you want. You can also import themes from the in...

College, Freshman advice, COVID19??

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 COLLEGE DURING A PANDEMIC AND ADVICE FOR FRESHMAN Well this is my second time typing this. I went to post it earlier tonight and all of a sudden it just all deleted. So yeah. I am a little angry - because this was a super long post and I had lots of cool pictures and everything. So sorry if it doesn't live up to your expectations.  Where was I....  Going back to school no matter what is stressful, but going back to school during a pandemic, now that's a little crazy. I truly have no idea how this school year is going to go. I constantly find myself stuck between "I want to go into this semester with an open mind and with the mindset that we will stay on campus" vs. "I don't want to get my hopes up and be let down". I really hope we get to stay until Thanksgiving but I think I am overestimating the responsibilities of my fellow classmates. I am about to wrap up my packing for my apartment this semester. So I wanted to include some tips and tricks that sa...

Constantly wearing goggles

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"Just because someone else is in a full-body cast, doesn't mean that your broken wrist doesn't hurt." It is a tough quote to actually apply to your daily life, but it is something that should be noted. Everyone is entitled to their own suffering and pain. Just because someone has it so much worse than you doesn't mean that your pain isn't valid. During times like this through the Black Lives Matter movement, everyone is entitled to their own pain and suffering but the oppression of the Black community and other minorities is a completely different topic. White privilege is not saying that your life isn't hard. It just is a reminder that the color of your skin hasn't made your life any harder. For three years of my life that I can remember, it constantly felt as though I was wearing drunk goggles and I was watching someone else live my life for me. I felt out of control and just out of touch. It also felt like, everything around me was going at a normal...